Ok, to make a long story short, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago because he kept cheating on me (3 different girls during out 2 year courtship). We remained friends, although not very close. His little brother came up to visit him in SF a couple of days ago and they both came out to my place (in SC) to spend the day with me. His brother kept trying to talk him into going back to LA with him (where he is originally from). Ex-boyfriend says that if he goes to LA, then he's going to go to Vegas with some of his old buddies. Now, keep in mind that the reason we broke up is because he was always drinking way too much and going after girls, buying them drinks, kissing them, sometimes right in front of me. Since we're not dating anymore, I have no problem with him going to Vegas and doing whatever he wants. Only, there's a catch: he lost his job a couple months back and needs his unemployment check in order to have money for Vegas, and won't be able to cash it because he will be LA and leaves out for Vegas the same day his check is supposed to arrive in SF. So ex-boyfriend's brother wants me to drive from Santa Clara to SF to wait for the mail man to come, get the check, and deposit it into ex-boyfriend's bank account so he can play in Vegas. And I have to do it before 5pm so he can get the money in his account on time. I said no. And now ex-boyfriend's bro hates me and thinks I'm a bad person. And on a side note, ex-boyfriend never told his brother that we broke up, so his brother thinks I'm a bad girlfriend and was treating me very mean for the rest of the day. Was I wrong? Should I have agreed to pick up the check and deposit it for him so he can play in Vegas? I'm at the point where I don't even want to be friends with ex-boyfriend anymore because I put up with enough crap from him when we were dating and don't want to put up with it now that we're not dating.