I have been thinking about what sort of rings I would want and realized the traditional diamond engagement ring and matching wedding band is not for me. My bf and I already own a house and will not have a big wedding (getting married on a trip and a party when we get back) when we do it, so we wont really have a formal engagement. I would actually be fine with one great ring and not a separate engagement ring also. In addition -I wear both gold and silver/platinum jewelry so I am not sure which to choose -If I got a center stone I wouldnt want a diamond (probably emerald) -I would like something cool and stylish, but timeless These are a few that I liked online: http://www.ylang23.com/shop_prodDetail.cfm?ShopBy=Designers&CategoryName=rings&DesignerID=1&ItemID=13363 http://www.twistonline.com/Detail.aspx?ID=575 http://www.twistonline.com/Detail.aspx?ID=3509 http://www.twistonline.com/Detail.aspx?ID=3111 http://www.ylang23.com/shop_prodDetail.cfm?ShopBy=Designers&CategoryName=rings&DesignerID=1&CurrentPage=2&ItemID=469 Has anyone gone the untraditional route? Can you post pics?