I love the day style and have a magenta city pre-ordered. This is my question. I really need a bag that I can carry across my body (like the courier) b/c I'm going to soon have 2 kids under 2 and need free hands. I love BBags b/c they are so light and smooshy. Is the courier my best bet? Are there any other styles that I can carry that way? Has anyone seen any like this recently in Anthracite? I hope I haven't asked a question that has been answered before but I just want to make sure I get something that I will be able to use daily. Thanks!!