I just got my thomas wylde skull bag(the bigger one with the big skull on it) and LOVE it. had to wait like 3 month to finally find an original one and I am soooo in love with this bag....BUT: I am sooo afraid of using it, because it seems so fragile! does anyone of you have this bag=?? suggestions on how to use it without harm? Especially the tassels seem to might get cut off pretty easily.... hope you gals have some input! thanks in advance!