I just wanted to give a big thank you to everyone on tPF, and especially to CANDACE117 and her amazing DH. You two are the sweetest people ever. I think you from the bottom of my heart for reaching out to me, and speaking to me of my situation in such a kind, warm hearted, not to step on my toes type of manner. It amazes me that I've met such nice people from just a website! Thank you so much for your kind thoughtful words, and for even going further and asking your DH his opinion on a guy's point of view. You really went all out, I would never have exected anyone to do that. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! You're the best!! I freggin love this site!!