Hey everyone... I have this dilemma and am not sure what to do. I can't decide if he's harmless or scary... I just moved into a building in a pretty good/safe area in Hong Kong. My apartment is great, and incredible for the price, was only able to get it through connections. So all around, it's the perfect place for me, had it not been for my "stalker." I have landline provided by the building. He called me three times in two weeks (that which I picked up, too lazy/scared to pick up the other times when it rang - couldn't have been my family because of the time difference) asking me to meet him downstairs (he knows where I live!) or my plans for the day or whatever. Because he knew my name, number (only my family knows my home number), and address, I knew it had to be a doorman. And low and behold, I'm pretty which one it is (very distinctive accent, looks at me weird whenever I walk across the lobby, only three doormen - certain it's not the other two.) To make the situation worse, he's on night duty this week, the doormen has all the keys to the apartments, and my door only has one lock. I'm actually pretty scared. So I complained to management but they aren't very willing to fire him. I wonder if it even matters if they fire him, since he'll still know where I live and hold a grudge. What is your opinion on the situation? Am I overreacting? Could he just be a bold, over-friendly, socially-inept guy? (PS. he looks forty-fifty, and I'm in my early-twenties. He should leave me alone no matter what) If I move, I'll have to pay at least twice what I'm paying now, most likely even more... that's pretty much the only thing holding me back from moving. I really value any advice you may have. Thank you so much.