I've noticed that there are other members besides myself that are hurting right now (giselle - my heart aches for you) even if they havent come out and said anything yet. There have been several members who have recently gone through tough break ups as well, and I hurt for you. Well anyways, my reason for posting. I've known so many people who use music as a sort of therapy and since I havent had relationship troubles in so long I guess I've. . .lost touch(?) with music that has helped me get through in the past. This morning I was listening to some old Babyface music and that song "Sorry for the Stupid Things" kind of made me feel more forgiving towards my guy. I've made mistakes (not nearly as many or as bad as he has) and he's made mistakes. In the end, we're still so in love. . .forgive me guys, I just can't walk away. Sorry, geez I keep getting off topic. What songs help you to heal?