let me say one thing- i don't think i was particularly nice. i think that getting up for older people, pregant women, women who are ill, holding doors open, etc are things we should all do without question. it's how i was raised and how i try to live- except for those moments like "ah but i dont wanna get up. i'm tired". i think society in general has gotten away from good manners and treating people with respect.
so while i thank you all for your comments i don't think i did anything out of the ordinary nice. i think these sorts of things are what we should all expect, kwim?