...Obsessing over hurting other's feelings all the time gets silly and counterproductive to the aim of a forum (somewhat free sharing of ideas).
I wouldn't say I'm "obsessive" about hurting someones feelings but for me, personally, I do think kindness is more important than getting my point across. I would never want to be perceived as a jerk in person so I would not want to be perceived as one here either. Otherwise, anything I would be trying to say would be overshadowed by the way I'm saying it. KWIM? To cite an extreme example, it would be tantamount to a activist group going to destructive measures to get their point across - no one is paying attention to the message, just the method.