My fiance (soon to be husband in a few weeks) and I are trying to decide if we are going to have another child but aren't sure if it's the right thing to do or not. We have a three month old daughter who is the absolute joy of our life, but whose birth was unexpected. I am 23 years old and graduated from college last winter. I was working for my dad's law firm with plans to go to law school and immediately enter his practice. My fiance (28yrs old) had just quit his teaching and coaching job and entered the environmental testing equipment company. Post-birth, I have cut back on work which I do work from home so I can take care of our daughter during the day. I plan on going to law school when she is old enough to go to school during the day (pre-k). My fiance has mentioned several times he might want another kid (hopefully a boy), but if we're going to have one, we need to have one now. If I wait, then I either put off law school longer and bring home very little money in the meantime or I have a baby after law school when I have tons of debt and no way to pay it off other than working full time and putting the baby in day care (which we're both opposed to). Anyways, sorry for the long story, but I thought it might help anyone giving opinions. We don't want a big age gap between the children, so it's kind of now or never. What do you think? Have you been in a similar situation? Do you wish your parents had another child? Do you wish you were an only child? Do you wish that you had your children at different times/with different age gaps? Please help! I know this is a decision that we ultimately have to make for ourselves, but I could really use some opinions or advice! Also, this is sad, but my biggest fears in having another child are that I won't get any sleep again (I miss sleeping so much right now!) and that I won't love them as much as my daughter. Any help on that would be so greatly appreciated too! I can't thank you enough!!!!!!!