first of all, i have to clearify that i am not a baby person. my first and only pregnancy was an accident. but it was a beautiful one. i got lucky with my son, Phoenix, who is 9 months old now. i was 20 at the time, a college student, didnt have a job. but somehow, things worked out. and i have to admit that it is amazing watching my baby grow everyday. anyways, i'm up to a point to decide if i want another baby in my life. my husband would love a second one but i have lot of concerns. i swore to myself i wouldnt have another one after going through pregnancy and labour. but having babies is addictive i guess, i miss having a new born and watching him/her growing. and i would love a little girl as my second child. so here are my questions, what is like to have two or more children?(2 is my maxium number) i've seen terrible things between the two kids of my brother in law's-fights, jealousy, screaming and so on. could you really love both/all of your kids at the exact same level? i'm sure deep down inside you may love one more than the other(s). and it is quite unfair on the other child. my husband's parents love his brother, they worship him, and when it comes to my husband, nothing. and that is a big concern of mine. i wouldnt have a clue what is like of having more than 1 child in the family because i am the only one of my parents'. what if i cant give enough attention to both of them? what if i dont have anymore time for myself? and i already dont have enough time. and my following comment may make me sound like a devil another baby or more bags? babies are expensive!! so here you have it all, please feel free to throw in your 2 cents. i would love to hear your opinions.