I know eBay is only an online venue byt it can get you so riled up sometimes. a fornight ago, a buyer bid on hree items: a handbag and two books. Of course, they wen't through checkout and asked for a combined total. now, the combined weight of the items came to just under 1kg which costs £2.70 in the UK. I add on my p&p fee of £1 and quote her £3.70. she doesn't say anything, she paid quickly and I posted her stuff quickly. she left me feedback a couple of days ago. I was waitng till the weekedn to leave my feedback for everyone. (this is normal for refular sellers) Last night I got this message out of the blue: I paid promptly and was suprised about the postage~~~~as i told you. I accepted it but find it totally childish that you have not left feedback~~~ so I reply: Childish??? If you were a regular seller you'd realise that some sellers leave feedback in bulk. I do mine weekly and others even do theirs monthly. Considering eBay gives 90 days to leave feedback, they don't see it as a problem. I take great exception to being called childish. It's been barely three days: what makes think I won't leave feedback at all? When did you query the postage charge? (I have no record of it in paypal or eBay) the postage was 2.70 if you noticed the stamp. The extra pound covered the postage and packing. Again, this is within ebay's rules. In hindsight I could have been calmer but I was soo annoyed. Her feeback is over 700 so I'm suprised she's hounding me for feedack after three days. When i checked her feeback, she has only 23 from buyers, so she is more of a buyer than a sellrs anyway. The postage on the three separate items would have been GBP7.90 so she got a deal on GBP3.70. moreover, each item was wrapped in borwn papers, then out in a mailbag, with a computerised postage stamp and printed label,. All of this costs money!!! grr, if i could smack her through the screen, I would!