This is the first time I've ever had this problem and worried it would and it did. I sold a limited edition dvd on eBay. Buyer paid but paypal is unconfirmed. So i asked her to confirm her add. to me. to make sure i'm sending it to the right place. A couple of days later she said thanks for the dvd. She told me she watched and loved it but it was in black and white. Then she asked for a refund. I said to her it wasn't as i check before hand. I told her to check her dvd. To night as i paid for an item i bought. I notice in paypal that there was less money than it should have. It said that there was a reverse charge. Now she has the DVD and I paid her for it!! Is there anyway i can get my money back?