my mil bought me a coach wallet for christmas basically like this but another color. It was to match the tote my husband bought me, but the leather is all wrong. So to get to the point: he got the receipt from her and said " oh just go exchange it for the one that matches" . the problem is: its just not me. its too big. i'm more of a big bag, small wallet girl. it was 200-ish...i could exhange it for alot of small stuff or another whole bag darn near. but would it be wrong? i dont really want to hurt anyones feelings ( although i'm pretty sure she doesnt care for me at all). whats the right thing to do?