I understand exactly how you feel, LVCRAZED. It's smart to return something that you don't really love.
I'm also on a hunt for the perfect bag and haven't found it yet. I haven't bought a new bag in a year! Oh well, it's fun to keep looking...
Good Luck on your search as well!!!!!!! LOL! Ya, it is fun looking!! Reading other PFers posts, cking all the different bag websites, and different designer purse forums here on tPF. Maybe it's all "in the hunt!" LOL!