Hey Gang, I am not one to be indecisive with which handbags to buy. However, I am finding myself unsure about this new purchase. The color is more red IRL. I like the size and the way the leather pleats on the back. I showed the bag to my mom and she asked me what it was . And I really value my mom's opinion so I think that's why I'm having second thoughts. Do you think I should exchange it for a color that is more toned down? I like the Honey with black trim. Or should I return it?