I need a shoulder bag. I am considering this bag as well as the cabas piano. I think the BH would fit my needs best if it weren't so darn big. I like the size of the piano, but worry about the bottom. It seems like the BH is a good alternative to the cabas but it looks so big in pictures. Is it very very slouchy? Will it sit on the floor without collapsing on itself? I do not carry a ton of stuff, so do you think it could be TOO big? I mainly carry a wallet, makeup bag, keys, cell phone, glasses case and other random things my children make me carry, but not a ton of stuff. I am a stay at home mom. I worry that this bag looks very "corporate" or like a working woman. Also it seems to stick out way in front of and behind people because of its *horizontal* nature. Does this bother anyone? Convince me I need this bag!