Hi, I am new to the board and am interested in getting my first Chanel. I have done research reading up on the boards and know that a lot of you prefer the silver hardware on your bags. Is it old fashioned of me to get my first flap bag with the gold hardware? It's just that when I've imagined myself with a Chanel, I always imagined a black bag with the gold chain strap. Never even knew about the silver until I got here. What do you all think? I am mid 30s with kids if that makes any difference.