I was recently admiring a blush (i think that's what the color is called -- not sure though, the creamish slightly pinkish color?) stam in patent leather that a friend was carrying and all of a sudden REALLY wanted one (although I know it's fallen out of the "it" bag scene... but really. who cares.. as long as it makes me happy ) Anyways, my question is "is the stam really heavy?" I had previously owned a stella and gave her up because she was just too stressful on my shoulders to carry around all day. I know Marc Jacobs' bags tend to be on the heavier side because of the material, the hardware, etc. and was wondering how heavy/tolerable the weight factor is. Any comment would be appreciated. Thanks!