Hi, everyone! I've never bought a Treesje before and I've never even seen on IRL. I have a few questions about the Nirvana Tote... 1. Is it very heavy? 2. What is it like on the shoulder....does it look like you are carrying a suitcase? Just wondering bc it's 5 inches deep and the drop of the handle is quite long. Does anyone have a REAL LIFE photo of them and their Nirvana? TIA!