Oh no! I just got my new Ali with gold trim. I LOVE the way it looks, but I get the feeling it has to go. It's too BIG. And not in a Lily way. Is it just me? Do you get used to the size as you wear it more? I just feel like it's overpowering me. I looked at everyone's pics and it looked great on them. Does anyone have this in the smaller size, the shoulder flap? I'm just so sad right now, I love the gold even more in person but the size is so awkward. But then again I've never had a bigger purse like this, so maybe I'll just get used to it. Any advice?? And I don't know why it looks like I have a photoshopped camera in my hand in the first pic, haha.