hi there, I saw all the posts here and can't help falling in love with the damier. It is classy, it is low maintenance (don't blame me since I have a running toddler ) What i am looking for is: 1. roomy enough to carry daily essentials and easy to reach things (I heard speedy's small opening and deep pockage is not convinient) 2. I am petite so not the size of the bag can't be too big. 3. Could be used a shoulder bag since I do need to free my hands when with my toddler) Any suggestions, ladies? Thanks!