Oh my god. Reading that hurt my heart. Let me tell you a story...
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years in January - I'm also still in school, which is why we haven't gotten married. He met me as a slightly overweight girl, but due to unforseen circumstances and with lots of family-related stress, I gained massive weight. By the second year of our relationship my weight had sky rocketted to 265 pounds. He loved me regardless. He told me I was beautiful - he made me feel beautiful, which is probably why I could give two ****s about how much I ate at the time. In '05 I decided to get gastric bypass surgery after I was told that my obesity was affecting my fertility. My boyfriend, though he LOVES thin girls, was completely AGAINST it - not because he wanted me to remain fat, but because he was petrified of losing me on the operating table. It took awhile to convince him - but I did, and I had the surgery in February of 06. I now weigh 150 pounds and am still losing. He nursed me throughout my entire recovery - to the point of learning how to cook in ways that I could eat food. We fight, sure - we fight alot - we both have extremely volatile tempers. But what keeps me going is knowing that this man has loved me through LITERALLY thick and thin - from near 300 pounds to 150 pounds and losing. He still embraces me the same way he did before; he still looks at me with that same attraction. The entire WORLD treats me differently since my weight loss - people tend to dislike fat/unattractive people. But the person you love is supposed to love you for who you are - not for what you look like. Are you sure you want to commit yourself to this person for LIFE? From your story he seems to love the way you look - but hunny, that is all superficial. You may not get fat, but gravity WILL hit - and unless he's a plastic surgeon he needs to accept that he's human as well. Does he think he's found the fountain of youth and will never age? Dump this *******. I'm all for being shallow - but there's an extent. He doesn't sound like he loves you - he loves your appearance. You deserve more.