Winternight.. I think that you can do what you want. I mean right now the relationship feels unstable... your BF is going to break up w/ up out of the blue :WTF: WTF is that? I think that you are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex while in a relationship as long as they respect the relationship you're in. I think your BF is pissed, of course, and sometimes you gotta shake things up to get a response. If you have a friendship w/ your ex, then your BF shouldn't be pissed.. Hey whatever you would do for your female friend, you should do for your male friends, i.e. crashing at your place for a night.
Plus it's the whole lack of consideration thing... you felt inconsidered when he wanted to break up w/ you out of the blue and you are mirroring how you felt. *hugs* girl, almost breakups are never easy... especially if they're out of the blue.
Off topic.... if you want to marry this guy and he has doubts because of some fundamental beliefs such as religion, then hey, it's like he's an idiot for accepting the differences in the beginning, but not accepting it now... but regardless you need to make a decision for yourself if you can deal w/ the flakiness... because peace of mind trumps all in my opinion.
good luck w/ everything !!!
Plus it's the whole lack of consideration thing... you felt inconsidered when he wanted to break up w/ you out of the blue and you are mirroring how you felt. *hugs* girl, almost breakups are never easy... especially if they're out of the blue.
Off topic.... if you want to marry this guy and he has doubts because of some fundamental beliefs such as religion, then hey, it's like he's an idiot for accepting the differences in the beginning, but not accepting it now... but regardless you need to make a decision for yourself if you can deal w/ the flakiness... because peace of mind trumps all in my opinion.
good luck w/ everything !!!