what does one do?? Seriously this has been plagging me for months and it's a complicated situation. Our entire relationship has been 'drama' from the get go (he was my doctor and we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs) and while he may not be traditionally "gorgeous" by societies standards, I did find him attractive to begin with but know I can barely stand him kissing me. He is a wonderful man who wants nothing more than my happiness and I don't care what others may think, I just wish I still found him attractive! I really dont know what to do and our relationship has been on the slide. I am shallow to how 'I' look I suppose but I do not apply that to others. I think there has been so much hurt in the relationship that I don't have it in me anymore. I wish I had some answers-I've been divorced and don't want another failed relationship, especially if it's 'just me'. He is being very patient but I can't expect him to be this supportive forever-it's not fair to him!! *Sigh* Sorry just needed to vent.