i'm going to NYC to visit two of my girlfriends that live in manhattan. We're going out the first night to a friend's 30th (old) bday party and I will see lots of people I haven't seen in forever... what are the trends in the NYC bars these days? I'm not sure which bar it is, but it's definately not a dancing night club and probably will be a more trendy bar with the bottle service and what not. skinny jeans? boots over pants? flowy tanks? sweaters? halters? help me out!