My friend was having some unexplainable cramps and bleeding after she goes running/work out. She went to go consult a clinic to get checked out. While she was getting checked, as they inserted the instrument to open up the vagina, my friend screamed and started crying in pain. The doc did not stop, instead she told her " let me switch to a smaller one". Without warning, she inserted the 2nd instrument and my friend told the doc that it was still REALLY painful for her and she was crying and screaming. After that, my friend was in major pain and shock. Shes been to the gyne before years ago but she said it was not anything like that. At the end of the exam, the doc insisted on saying "...you know, next time if you were sexually active, that would make it much easier for me." Was that even appropriate for her to say? My friend is 21 and still a virgin. After she left the clinic, she told me that she feels like she just paid someone to basically RAPE her. My friend then later finds out that the "doc" was not an actual doc, but she was a mid-wife. Is this even allowed? Not only did she not stop after my friend told her it was HURTING ( while crying & screaming) , but shes not even a gyne. Not even just that, but she also said that the lady was even wearing ACRYLIC nails. I don't know if I am missing something or do not know, but can anyone tell me if something was wrong there? Thanks in adv for any opinions on this.