Well, I turn 35 this year, have a 1 year old, an 11 year old and expecting to add to the family soon. I was a wild and crazy kid and am still fighting the whole middle aged thing--HARD. Today my DH and I went shopping for a mini van and I've finally realized that a mini van will indeed be my next car...not a porche, not a mercedes, not a bmw, not even a Range Rover, but a mini van. I really need all of you to help make me feel that it is okay for me to be driving a mini van. My cute little hubby is getting me one with leather interior to make me feel better and will even buy me the red one if I want it. I am really sad about this mini van thing. Help ladies!