i've narrowed down for my first bbag purchase to a city and i'm considering either an anthracite or a marine. it's limited to see all the colors where i live so i've actually not seen anthracite irl but all the pics here look amazing. i did see marine (not in city but in other styles) and i really like that color as well. i'm looking to use the bag as an everyday bag (all year around!) and i mostly wear jeans/casual. i'm a total newbie so any suggestions/recommendations will be helpful for my first purchase. in general how are the leather quality for the two colors? ugh i so wish i could just go down to a store and see the two colors and pick one, but i have to blindly call balNY and phone order so it's really frustrating! oh and can you actually wear a city across your body? i always thought the strap is not long enough but i saw a pic floating around where a girl wore it like that and thought it was cool. did i see a fake or is that possible? thank you for your help!!