Don't know where to start to tell what happened last two weeks, it was like a movie but it did happen to me. I was totally devastating when it happened but now my emotion is back to normal again. My husband and I were just married the end of 2005 and had wedding last year, but from last December we fought a lot because what he told me before is not true. He said the car he was driving has been paid off but actually it is not. I found out he had not paid the monthly leasing fee for 10 months so last december the car leasing company wanted to possess the car. Also, I found out he had habits going to cash loan, money mart those kind of services, which I really hate, because those interests are extrememly high. So he did not tell me he still has some debts not paying back yet. After finding out all his untold debt including owing amount for those cash loan places, one CC card bill and owing government tax amount , I tried to help him to pay back debts step by step based on our monthly budget, giving back his old leasing car and bought a cheap second hand car. Also he agreed I managed household budget and financial since I keep telling him we need to fill in those debt hole firstly then we should start saving asap for family. However, two weeks ago Monday morning I found out there has one hotel bill in his car, with one woman's name and CC info. I asked what it was and he stuck for 3 minutes did not what to say, just said it was his, was somebody else. Then he said it was his boss's affair and let him keep the bill...etc. And also he said the girl is not from his company..etc. So l left his car going to work, meantime since I remembered the first name on the bill so I confirmed that the woman works same company as his. At night, he told me if I wanted to know the truth, then he told me that the girl's husband is crazy so she talked to him a lot, so that night he dropped her to hotel and went to his second job at night, then picked her up in the morning going to work together. I was so mad and devastating at that time, asking for divorce and tried to sell our house so I can move out. Last week he said because we fought too much that is why he feels the girl can listen...blah blah. Also since he agrees to sell house and knows we will eventually divorce, so he keeps the relationship with that woman more open, dinning out, even went to hotel last monday again (according to his CC transaction history). He mentioned that the woman in his company is also married 3 years and having a 6 years daughter. and that woman keeps calling her a lot every night. At this point I really don't know what to say, I told him I will let him go that's why I am asking for divorce. After the first week he agreed to sell the house firstly, and looks like he agrees to get divorce too. What a joke for me.... I was deeply heartbroken and could not stop crying at first week, but now I do think I found their affair so early which is good for me.