Last Saturday my sister called me early in the morning and asked if I wanted to go shopping with her. We hardly see each other and have so much fun when we get together so I said yes. She picked me up around 10:30 AM. So I tell my husband I am going out with my sis and he has to watch the kids. He totally flipped out. He got very angry with me and said I did not notify him I was going and I must have had this planned .... It is not like he was doing anything. They are his kids too and very good kids. He took them out for lunch at a place that has a game room and then they rode bikes and he did work in the front yard. He then took them shopping. Sis and I had a wonderful time, we hit so many stores (my feet hurt). We went to her favorite place and had a wonderful lunch. We shopped and I got home at 6:30. He gave me major attitude and then the next day was still at it. I just don't get it. It seems like he has this need to control me and tell me what I can and can't do---like I should stay home all the time. We work from home together so I feel that I deserve to go out when I want. It is really frustrating because he seems to get so angry when I go out with my sis or when I go out with my SIL for the evening and we get our hair done. I don't know what his problem is.