Well, some newbie just tarnished my perfect feedback after three years...I am beyond angry and just need to rant a little. I typically sell high end designer items...mostly of my own and always authentic. My buyers are always happy and I work hard to represent my items correctly and honestly and to ship quickly. Never, ever a problem until now...not over a bag but over a stupid little Christmas tablecloth. I am beyond angry at this situation. I had two tablecloths given to me as gifts...brand new in package. I did not need them so decided to put them up on eBay...just to get rid of them honestly. I figured, why not? Same buyer with 4 feedbacks only bid and won them even though I put in my auctions: buyers with less than 5 must contact me prior to bidding. Because these were not big ticket items I let it go. Well, buyer paid quickly and I gave discounted combined shipping...to my dismay I went to find them and one was missing. Seems my sister swiped one and I was unaware of it. I, of course, instantly contacted the buyer and apologized profusely and offered her to back out of the auction if she wanted or if she wanted just the one table cloth I would offer her a discount. She accepted the later offer and told me "no big deal". Figured it all worked out, right? Guess what? She neg'd me and I am furious. No choice but to neg her back and file for mutual withdrawl. Sorry to go on and on but I am just so mad. Any thoughts anyone?