Hello -- if anyone has photos of themselves carrying a mat fowler, I would love to see them, to get an idea of the scale of the bag. Also, if you have one, do you think a black one would make a good evening bag? I don't mean cocktail-party sparkly-dress evening bag, but rather more toned-down dressy-work-function evening bag? I know the metallic gunmetal gray which is the black color is very elegant-looking, but I wonder about the strips of vachetta that the bag in edged in . . . .do they make it less "dressy," really more appropriate for the daytime? Thanks in advance!