First of all, I don't want sympathy. I've gotten enough of it from the Dr. and my husband. I'm dealing pretty well right now, but haven't told the rest of my family and friends. They were all so excited (perhaps even more so than me). This was going to be the first grandchild in the family and everyone was freaking out and starting to plan showers and things. I don't want "I'm so sorry's" from them, I really don't. I just want everything to go back to normal. Does anyone else have experience with miscarriage? My doctor said I have a choice to make between the D and C or letting things happen 'naturally'. How did you tell your family and friends when they were all so excited? TIA.