Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........:s I am married for last 2 and a half years and my relationship with my husband is just perfect. I love him more day by day and it's just better as it goes...........................except his family...... I just cannot stand them. They are so mean and rude. I try to spellbound myself by saying....they are his parents and I love him so much and so I should love them as much as I love him......and it works a bit until they start driving me nuts. For instance, his mom goes through my stuff and his stuff, even our underwear drawers to see if I have organized them well and folded them correctly........... ...... Is this normal? Am I over reacting? And his dad always braggs about how successful he was with business and then never ever ever ever pays when we go out for meals.......not that I am stingy or anything but maybe once in 10 times, I would like to see him pay. He excuses himself to go to the bathroom or go for a smoke when the bill comes..... His sister hates me and makes up stories to his mom....such as I said something mean to her (which I never did....I swear) and then make her mom call me and scream at me..... His mom calls me names and stuff...... And most of all they come down to stay with us without letting us know first, and stay as long as they want......eat as much as they want...........and leave only trash and empty frige behind. Am I not being a bigger person? Should I understand what's going on? Am I over reacting? What should I do? I think my husband feels sorry but does not say much about the situation and I do not wannt bring it up first 'cause I have a feeling that it's not going to end up pretty. H E L P!