I'm looking for a LV wallet for my dad's birthday. Dad is in his mid 50s and work in advertisement. He always ended up using those wallets (ie. Hugo Boss, Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren) that his clients gave him as gifts. I know he's semi-fascinated with LV so I want to get him his own LV wallet for a change. Plus I think he really deserves one! I think the monogram might be too "gay" for him since I always associate monogram as feminine. What about damier? Do you guys think it looks too "old man"? I don't want dad to look any older. Maybe epi? Love the tough leather and the texture! Now I'm thinking what colors: black, brown, or blue. Any opinions? Should I get damier or epi and in what colors? What about engraving it with his initials?