I just found out I'm expecting and want to start on the great quest for a diaper bag well ahead of time so I can really be sure I get the bag I want and hopefully can find a great deal on it. I'm young and very active but also enjoy the finer things in life. This bag will have to go everywhere and be very durable and NOT WHITE!!!!!! I know I will stain the bag/drop the bag/a dozen horrible things I would never want to see happen to my favorite designer purses...so I'm sure plenty of you have been on this quest before...any advice??? I'd prefer something gender neutral that doesn't scream diaper bag!!! (unless it's just too cute!!!) Just for a style background- my favorite daily wears are a black Dior street chic purse, a dark choco fendi spy, a mono LV speedy, a LV Luco, a black nylon Prada for rainy days and older leather Balenciaga. I'm short and sporty-looking/petite (that last part might change though!). Thank you sooooo much in advance!!!! You girls have such great taste I can't wait to see what you suggest .