...OH MY!! Congratulations!! Your newly acquired purchase looks fabulous on you. If it had been between the pochette and the ring...I know I'd gone for the ring too. It's so pretty...
The ring looks gorgeous on you! And your fingers aren't bony, girl- they're pretty! I saw the ring IRL at the Beverly Center this Saturday (at the tPF meet) and it was really pretty. I think you should keep it, and just live without the pochette.