... the M Lily. I finally received both the M and XL lilies in Black. I only get to keep one. I tried them both on, with my stuff. The XL lily is GORGEOUS! It makes the best statement. The hardware is great. But it's just to big, boxy and heavy for me. So, I decided to go with the M Lily. Here are some photos of both... oh, yeah, and Bridget is a keeper too! She just might be my favorite! Much bigger than I was expecting! Med and XL Lily in Black: Bridget with lilies: From the side: Thanks for all the input from the earlier comparison post! You all had great input!