I have to aggree with Jan...
Perhaps it is how you're applying it... I find I get different results when I do different application methods.
I would suggest blotting. After removing the mascara wand from the bottle, hold out a tissue in your other hand. Ever so lightly, slowly twirl and roll the wand over the tissue - dont press or wipe. This will blot the excess product off the wand and allow you to have more control on how much you apply.
And, as always, start from the outer lashes, and work your way in, curling the wand as you go up the lashes setting them at a daring curve.