Hi all, I am about to get my 1st Hermes bag and i am getting all jittery about it. I am offered 2 Kellys both in Clemence w PH, a Cafe 28cm and a Etoupe 32cm. I am planning to use this as a work bag. Things that i usually pack in my bag includes a wallet, agenda, cell phone, make pouch, note book and maybe some documents(around A5 size because i usually fold it) or a small book. I do pack a simple breakfast or lunch at times. I am 1.64m (think a 5ft 4). My concerns..... 1. Is cafe too dull (or formal) to be used as everyday work bag? 2. If i choose a etoupe, will it be too big to be used as a sling on myself. I have 2 young toddlers, so i foresee myself using the sling quite often. Which kelly do you Hermes experts feel i should get? TIA !!!