I feel really bad because I want to go out and do things with my boyfriend but he is always so so tired... He works Monday-Saturday at all different times. Like waking up between 3:30-6:00, mostly always in the middle of that time, and sometimes the earliest and then the latest. He works until between 6-8, usually getting home around 7pm, so it varies. I won't get into specifics online but his work is competely physical. I do stuff with my own friends but I'm talking about wanting to do things with HIM. The most we do together is go out for dinner and get drinks. While that has been fun for some years now (been together nearly 8) it's just getting so boring... He is ready for bed by like 10 but doesn't get here until between 7 and 8, we usually stay out late on Saturdays of course as neither of us have work in the morning, but still getting home at about almost 11 and he still gets here between 7 and 8 practically straight from work. Sundays could be good but I still see him late (well, 3-ish until 6) those days because he has to help his parents with some home remodeling on Sundays that is presumed to be finished within 6 more months. So it only gives us Fridays and Saturdays to really work with. I feel bad when I practically beg for him to please let's go out and do something, like go for drinks -separate- from dinner, but he's so tired. When we do it's sometimes okay but most times it's quiet. He does really try to and mostly does but he is tired and isn't lively at all. And like I said, Sundays could be good but everything closes by 6, I'd love to go to like the zoo or the aquarium or a themepark with him... but he can't come over early enough for us to make the commute and actually spend time doing something FUN-- it's a hard situation to explain but he genuinely can't those days because he's helping his parents so I'm not concerned with that. Just disappointed, but I know we'll work something out, it just won't be every weekend which is the problem! I feel bad, not sure what to do. Anyone else in the same situation, can anyone relate? Any advice? I don't know if there's much I can do though... I mean work is a killer-- I miss the high school days haha! Those are so long gone. Thanks!