We know how difficult it is to get offered Birkins. All the cookies earned and relationship building..... And one day, your SA calls and offers you a Birkin. But you're just not up to one at this moment but you don't want to 'lose' the Birkin. What do you do? One scenario is pretend that you ARE buying the bag and bring a friend along with you, a friend who has no prior relationship with H whatsoever, and in fact will be getting the bag. It's like getting the Birkin for your friend. Is that ok?