Is there a kind way you can tell you best best friend that her hair looks like crap when she thinks she is hot??? My friend is trying to let her short layers grow out and cuts her hair herself---thinks she does the exact cut her stylist can do . Then she is trying to let her hair grow out with choppy layers and longer in the back. I am starting to think chop mullet hair. On top of this she tries to color her hair herself because she will not spend the money to get it done. I also think a stylist will cringe at the thought of trying to color her hair. Her hair is probably 4 different colors. She has a lot of gray but black hair, she is coloring it blond (one process) which turns the grey blond and the black red. Then she just talks about how fantastic her hair is and how everyone love her hair and compliments on it. I have heard people ask me what is going on with her hair. So I was thinking of paying for her hair to be cut and colored by my stylist for a gift. Do you think she would go for it? She is a wonderful person but has a twisted image of herself. She dresses in cami shirts with no bra because she had a boob job (which did not make her breasts even-so one is bigger and you can notice the size difference). I am just saying once you get to be over 60 maybe you might need a shrug over the cami???? I have seen people laugh at her because of the way she dresses when we go out. I have bought her some really nice things and she does wear them but she really got in to the less is more look and it is not becoming on her. Any suggestions?.