I don't like to 'air out my business', but I would love to hear the opinions of the diverse and wise group of women here. I'm 21 and am considering embarking on a serious relationship with a man that's considerably older than I (he's been pushing a little while). In the time we've dated, however, differences between our lifestyles have caused problems. I'm an unmarried undergrad student and he's divorced with two kids, the eldest a year apart from me. I care for him a lot, but part of me suspects that I'm just wasting my time by going down this road with him. I'm just so confused, and don't know what to do. Of course, I have to make this decision for myself, but I would love to hear what ya'll think about partnership with a significant age gap, either philosophical or from experience.