i realise that this is probably totally against the rules and will get closed or deleted within minutes but i have to say- after the drama of the get it off your chest thread in the LV forum it seems tht more and more members are becoming judgemental and trying to force ideas onto others. im pleased the thread was closed because it was not developing in a healthy way, certain members seem to think they can tell others how they should behave. as far as i could tell the "negativity" in the subforum was just people expressing their true feelings. is this wrong? as the thread went on it felt like some of the more established members were trying to preach to others and that made me feel very uncomfortable. i loved the forum for its individuality and the fact that you could get honest answers about anything, this seems to be wanning and the rules are getting more strict.