i'm graduating high school in a couple of weeks and as a graduation present i said i wanted a tennis bracelet never thinking i would get one. While, my grandparents took me to our jewelry store and i picked out a beautiful one. I love and its exactly as i had been picturing. But, it was $3000 so when i came home my mother started yelling about how spoiled i was and how could i even ask them to buy me something like that. My grandparents are very well off and have no problem spending the money but now i feel awful and guilty. I even spoke to my grandfather about it and what my mother said and he basically said its yours i bought it for you unless you dont want it. But i really do want it, but i also know that they have 5 more grandchildren after me and will have to get them the same $ amount of present.... Should i tell them to not get it for me? They already have it and its my dream present but now i am feeling so guilty and like i am really being a "spoiled brat"... on the other hand i worked hard to get out of hs and into college but hard enough for that? idk... any suggestions? what would you do?
sorry for going on for so long but this has been bothering me for a couple weeks and i just don't know what to do... thanks for any help
sorry for going on for so long but this has been bothering me for a couple weeks and i just don't know what to do... thanks for any help