Hi, guys, this is my first time posting a thread about my relationship, im extremely upset right now, i really need your helps!! My bf and I have been together for 2.5 yrs, been living together for 1 yr, lately we have been arguing a lot... Let me explain our living situation a bit first. We split out living cost to half and half, and have an arrangement for household work. He cooks and I do cleaning and laundries. Last night, we had a big fight, the reason for the fight you may think a bit immature--food. He was cooking dinner, and I saw he put butter in the dish. We had some similar arguments before, he knew how much i hated butter, i feel sick even when i smell it!!! After i complained about it, all the sudden he got so mad, and throw all the dishes into the garbage, said:" I like it!!! You are not a customer at my restaurant, I don't have to cook what you like!!You wanna complain my cooking?? Then do it yourself!! " I was shocked.....and upset....I didn't know if i had done anything wrong... I went to talk to him, he got even madder, called my name and tried to push me... I've been crying a lot lately,theres just sooo many arguments (over little things), and soo many hateful words... I don't think Im HAPPY in this relationship... But I don't know if I'm brave enough to leave him, and we have a dog together, what should i do??