do you decide what to make? Main dish, side dishes, etc? or, do you ask your husband/wife/SO what they want every day? how much input does the party who does not do any cooking have in what is made or not made? When telling them what you are making-do they have input into changing something? Say, they don't want one of the side dishes you are making-not because they don't like it, but, because there would be too much yellow on the plate (don't ask, I am so aggravated here!). or, do you just cook what you want (things you know your partner would like) and they are just grateful that you cook anything for them for dinner??????? I remember when i was a kid, my mother was a SAHM and she made dinner every night-dad never said a word about what she made. UGH!