Alright, this may be LONG! I've been dating my fiance for 4 years (this Monday). We got engaged in September. Well he sorta drinks Jack & Coke ALL the time. He used to drink maybe a few on the weekends. The thing is, he doesn't know his limits when he DOES drink a lot. The other night he called me at 2 in the morning at told me to come pick him up! HE WRECKED HIS CAR!!! He was SO drunk! I just called his parents to go pick him up and I turned off my phone. (I know that's kinda mean, but I was having a panic attack when he told me that... I didn't know what to do!!!) Well the police NEVER saw the wreck or ANYTHING! ANYWAYS... just recently (last week) he moved out of his dads house and into his own apartment. I didn't want to live with him since I'm supposed to be going to Germany for a few months. Well now she has another guy living ther (hes about 37??) My fiance is 20.. Well I went to visit the other day and there was 2 JACK BOTTLES on DISPLAY on the counter (all empty)!!! It was SO trashy! I went the NEXT day and the was a Crown bottle and another Jack (and again... empty!) He's been drinking EVERYDAY sunce he's moved in and he's changed so much! I really don't know what to do anymore. I've been having little bouts of crying for the past 2 weeks! I'm actually crying right now. I just called him and he SAYS he's not drinking, but I KNOW he is by the words he's using! I love him SO much. We've never had so many problems in all of our 4 years together. He's my only friend (seriously). I try to push myself away from him and try to stop loving him, but it's SO hard and everytime I think about him I start to cry! Iv'e talked to him MILLIONS of times about his drinking and he insists he doesn't drink a lot, but he DOES!! I'm sorry if I sound crazy, but I'm out of it now b/c I've been crying so much! I don't want to loose my best friend/ fiance but it feels like I am. We've been fighting everyday for 2 weeks. We dont kiss eat other anymore when we see each other and I'm constantly hanging up on him! He just CANT get things threw his head! His BEST FRIEND was drinking & driving and him another car head on... killed himslef and 2 other people... my ex-BF died while drinking and driving and my other friend was killed by a drunk driver! THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I DON'T DRINK!!! PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I ALREADY GAVE HIM A WARNING AND HE BROKE IT, BUT I STILL HAVN'T LEFT HIM! WHAT DO I DO???